Is it ever safe to stop using condoms?
Condoms are the best protection you can have from sexually transmitted diseases , also known as STDs, aside from abstinence. They are also effective in preventing pregnancy. However, it is natural for couples to eventually want to move away from using condoms—but is it ever safe? In honor of National Condom Day, which takes place on February 14, here are some things you should consider before you decide to give up condoms in your relationship.
Have you been tested for STDs?
You can’t look at someone and tell if he or she has an STD. Many STDs don’t cause any visible symptoms at all, so you also can’t determine if you or your partner has an STD by appearance. Likewise, don’t know if your partner has exposed you to an STD because you haven’t experienced any symptoms.
The only way to know for sure if you or your partner has an STD is to get tested and to share the results with each other.
Have you chosen another form of birth control?
If you do not wish to start a family, have you chosen another form of birth control that is as effective as condoms? There are a number of different choices available, from birth control pills to IUDs, however, not every form is right for everyone.
When you choose a new method of birth control, it has to be used correctly to be effective, so make sure you understand exactly how to use it and exactly when it will start protecting you from pregnancy.
Have you discussed monogamy?
If both you and your partner have confirmed that you are free from STDs, the only way to stay that way is to remain monogamous with each other. Before you stop using condoms, discuss monogamy and if you are both committed to only being intimate with each other.
If someone has oral, anal, or vaginal sex outside of the relationship, you should return to using condoms until you can be tested again. Keep in mind that it can take three months for some STDs to show up in tests.
Take control of your sexual health today with the help of a physician at Good Samarian Hospital . From women’s services to our birthing center, our providers can help with sexual health and family planning. For a referral to a physician in San Jose, call our hospital at (888) 724-2362.